Tuesday, August 9, 2011
I luv him soooo much but am confused!!!?
alright, well, I'd bet that the guy likes you (the one you love) but not as much as you like him. From what you say you are terribly shy and i know what that's like because i used to be like that too but here's maybe the best advice i can give; start just as friendship. I used to like this guy but he didn't know i was even alive so i became his friend first. You also need his friends' apporval but not in a crush kind of approval. That other dude might like you but keep your mind open to him. The people you think you care most about are sometimes the least important to you. He might be more than a friend in the future if you don't go out with the guy you love. That "B" word, i'm not sure it might start with a "B". perhaps he said something like "nice" or "kool". Something to that effect. Another thing, are you sure you love him? Really love him? That's something to keep in mind but here's what i know about love. If you love him, you should be able to say what's on your mind. If you can't, just get more comfortable with him by befriending him first. When on the bus, say that you want to switch seats because, i don't know. Get a teacher (preferibly a sensitive one) and tell her that you don't feel comfortable around ______ and say that you just a) don't like them b) have been rude to your other friends or c) et cetera but make sure that you tell them that you want to be annonamous. Or, just talk to him during ping periods or get one of your guy/girl friends to talk to him for you. Um, just be yourself and say what you think and if you get nervous, just remind yourself that he's a person just like you who probably is on the virge of sh*ting himself.
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